Hello tribe,
I hope your week has been everything you wanted it to be. Isn’t that a funny statement? Often I think about how funny it is that we want certain things, but the Universe/ God knows better. 😉
One of the keys to truly healing our wounds is to start to align with a higher will. This is super hard for most people because we have so many different ideas about how the world / Universe works. In my understanding, I have seen how acting and thinking from my higher self brings me SO MUCH INNER PEACE regardless of what I am going through. To me, this is the proof in the pudding.
What is the ultimate goal anyway? Isn’t it to feel good regardless of our external conditions? SO many people come to me each week because they want to FEEL better regardless of their situations. And I have to say that is my mastery. Feeling peaceful, not because of the conditions of my life, but because I am aligned with my integrity. What does that mean? It means that I am living a life that reflects, feels, and behaves according to my morals, value system, and higher will. Not my wounded feelings, but my true feelings.
Now, this can be a tricky subject in itself. The daily practice is to start to recognize our emotional filters. We filter our perceptions and experiences through our wounds UNTIL we start to get really intimate with our wounding. This is why I am always saying, “We need to get real about how we feel so that we can heal.” This means we need to get authentic with our feels. When we do this, we can start to build a relationship with our wounds that does not reject but includes and eventually integrates.
As we start to get intimate with our wounding, we see that we are not our negative emotions. We are the observer of this. We can then start to explore the idea that we may just be a soul having a human experience. We are the essence that watches what happens in our lives and if we get really good at it, we can start to have our own wisdom about our lives. This is when we stop relying FULLY on all the self-help books and mentors and leaders and we start to welcome in our own wise guide inside. We need guides, but we also need it to match our own wise guide 😉
I want to tell you guys about this awesome summit I am a part of. I am one of the guest speakers and there is a TON of really wonderful information for you all for free.
BREAKING FREE FROM TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS
It is FREE and you can gain access here:
https://cvandell–avaiya.thrivecart.com/toxic-relationships/
Also a couple new videos for you this week on my Youtube channel!
HEALING FROM TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS
LET’S TALK ABOUT THE INNER CHILD
THIS IS ALSO THE LAST WEEK TO SIGN UP FOR EMOTIONAL REHAB AT THE DISCOUNTED PRICE.
Sign up here!
One on One sessions are avail here:
Self Love Masterclass
Truth Room Tribe (Monthly Membership)
The Skilled Empath
One-on-one Coaching
Spiritual Fitness Workbook
FREE E-book on my website
“why do I attract narcissistic”
NEW videos on my YouTube channel each week!!
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Hope you all have a beautiful week!
Candace
