Why We Attract Emotionally Unavailable Partners

by Candace Van Dell | Nov 20, 2020 | Codependency, Dealing with Abandonment, Highly Sensitive People

Hello tribe, I hope this week has brought you some new experiences and as always some healing. I want to talk about emotionally unavailable partners. This has been a huge subject this past week with my clients. It never fails that many of my sessions are revolving...

Why Do We Put Importance on Appearance?

by Candace Van Dell | Nov 13, 2020 | Dealing with Abandonment, Self Empowerment

Hello beautiful tribe, I want to share with you some insights around the Ideal vs. Real state that I often talk about. Many of us have found ourselves or our lives focused more on how something appears rather than how it feels. This past week I have had many sessions...

Karmic Relationships

by Candace Van Dell | Oct 29, 2020 | Codependency, Dealing with Abandonment, Self Empowerment

Hello lovely tribe, The theme for November’s teachings is Karmic Relationships. What is a karmic relationship and how does it differ from others? When I think of karma, I think of cause and effect. I think of serious life lessons and I also think about healing...

10 Traits of Codependency

by Candace Van Dell | Oct 8, 2020 | Codependency, Dealing with Abandonment, Dealing with Fear, Dealing with Shame, Self Empowerment

Hello beautiful community, Let’s talk about codependency. Many people don’t like that word. Personally, I don’t like any label, but I do find it helpful to pick things out that may describe symptoms we have for better self-awareness. As...

An Exercise to Relax Your Fears!

by Candace Van Dell | Sep 11, 2020 | Dealing with Abandonment, Dealing with Fear, Dealing with Shame, Self Empowerment

Hello beautiful souls, I’m not a huge astrology buff, BUT I do check in with the planets from time to time when I’m seeing myself and my clients go through very similar things that you just can’t make up. When there is an undeniable theme, there must...

How To Reparent Your Emotion

by Candace Van Dell | May 27, 2020 | Dealing with Abandonment, Dealing with Fear, Dealing with Shame, Highly Sensitive People, Self Empowerment

Hello beautiful souls, One of the biggest points of focus right now in my work has been reparenting. I get many emails each week asking me how to deal with emotions and how to “get rid of” negative emotional cycles. The truth is we don’t want to...